Thursday, June 23, 2016

All About Handbags

Today I am sharing some of my handbag care and storage tips with you, along with a new giveawayWatch the video below for more info on how you could win this bag by Michael Kors.




The built-in shelves in my closet are the perfect place to store bags and clutches as well as cuffs and bangle bracelets. 

A couple of years ago, I started using dust covers to protect my bags. I also keep them stuffed with tissue so that they don't lose their shape. I am making smarter purchases now so I will be keeping my bags for several years, which means I want to take better care of them.



I store my better clutches in a drawer for easy viewing and to keep them free from dust.




This video shows how I organize what I carry in my bags to make switching them out so easy. You will also learn how to enter to win the bag I am giving away on the 4th of July!



Congratulations Pat Willoughby!
You are the winner of the Michael Kors handbag giveaway.

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Tuesday, June 21, 2016

Family Time

On Sunday, my family celebrated Father's Day at the home of my sister and her husband. 



We always take a walk around the grounds after one of my sister's fabulous meals. In preparation for that tradition, I wore a casual look with flat sandals by Nine West from last year. The belt is old from Chico's. I prefer to give an illusion of a waistline with a hook belt worn low since I have a high thick waistline. The Anne Klein white jeans and the BCBG bag are old from T.J.Maxx. 


The Simple Comfort red top from Covered Perfectly is three years old, and it still looks great! These tops have a perfect neckline for me. I love that I can layer them or wear them alone. I am wearing a size large because I like them to fit a little loose if I am wearing them without a jacket or vest.




Fifty, not Frumpy followers can get a 20% discount on up to two items! Use the discount code FNF20 when you check out at Covered Perfectly. There are several styles to choose from and the discount will apply on up to two items or you can take advantage of the buy 2 get 1 FREE special!






My sister lives in the midst of woods, so there are abundant deer and other wild animals. This deer came strolling by the French doors of the dining room while we were having lunch.





I took this female hummingbird's photo from the back terrace.




The back walkway leading to the terrace is lined with hydrangeas and boxwoods.




Her shade garden is always a delight to behold. Grass would not grow beneath the trees, so she created an oasis with hosta, ferns, and other shade loving plants.









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Monday, June 20, 2016

Summer Style

I am the first to admit I don't have a strong summer dressing game.


My sister and I recently spent the day at The Biltmore Estate having lunch and touring the gardens and the conservatory. 


From earlier this year.

I wore a tunic provided by Foxcroft from a blog post earlier this year, with dark wash jeans and flat sandals. We planned to do lots of walking, and the weather person predicted cool temperatures for the day. However, instead of seventy degrees, it was more like ninety degrees that day.



Even though I was wearing a long sleeve tunic, I was still reasonably comfortable. I live in an area that isn't normally very hot, and I do not spend time outside during the heat of the day, so I don't have a separate wardrobe for summer. 



I am certain that those of you who live in areas with long hot summers may laugh at my choices. Even when the tops have sleeves and I wear them with white or light wash jeans, I am still fairly comfortable. I wear lightweight, loose fitting and light color natural fabrics during our hottest weather.



Sundresses and sleeveless tops are not my favorites, regardless of the heat. 






















In honor of the first day of summer, I am sharing with you a few summer tops I would consider wearing with white or faded jeans.

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Sunday, June 19, 2016

The High Country

Saturday was the perfect day to be in Blowing Rock, North Carolina.




I was dressed up a bit because we were in Blowing Rock to enjoy dinner at Rowland's at the Westglow Resort and Spa later in the evening.




Blowing Rock is one of my favorite places in the world! The panoramic views of mountains always fill me with a sense of peace and wonder. When we explore neighborhoods there, we always find a house or a garden that takes my breath away.










I purchased this jacket by IC Collection from ShopMyFairLady earlier this year but had not yet had the opportunity to wear it. Since the temperatures were only in the seventies there yesterday, this was the perfect time to take it out for a spin. The Lior Paris pants were a gift from ShopMyFairLady.




The tank top is from White House | Black Market. The necklace and bracelets were purchased from French Kande. The shoes are old by Gianni Bini from Dillard's. The wicker clutch bag is by JMcLaughlin. The Balmain sunglasses are from Saks Off 5th.




I was beyond thrilled to see this beautiful owl along our way down the mountain! 



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Created in collaboration with ShopMyFairLady.com.
All words, styling, and creative direction are my own.

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Saturday, June 18, 2016

Easy Pieces


At the end of a twelve-hour workday, I just want to take a long bath and go to bed. On this particular evening I had a date with my favorite gentleman, so getting dressed in five minutes was next on my busy agenda.




You rarely see me in full makeup and a well-planned look here on the blog (or in my daily life). This look is certainly no exception!






These days, I feel a strong urge to simplify and uncomplicate my life so I have been clearing clutter from my home and closet this year. Do you do that too occasionally? It feels great to look around and see only the things that bring me joy or that I actually use.









The rings were gifts from Mr. Mickey. The earrings are from Target.

My white jacket and the belt are old from Chico's. The scoop neck black tee is from White House|Black Market. The Tribal pants were a gift from Copper Penny in Hilton Head. The bag is old from Express. The shoes are old from Vince Camuto. 

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Friday, June 17, 2016

Pedicure Day

Do you get manis and pedis?



I look forward to this time which allows me to forget all my responsibilities and put my to-do list aside for a couple of hours. I did my own for most of my life, but now I really enjoy the luxury of having a professional take care of my nails year round.




Today I am sharing tips I have found helpful for finding and visiting a nail technician.

I looked for a space that was exceptionally clean, neatly organized and peaceful. I do not enjoy getting any services where there is clutter, loud music, or lots of chatter.

Finding a tech who has the same level of perfectionism that I do and a personality that is pleasant to visit with while the services are being provided is definitely a plus. 

Now that I have found the perfect fit for me, I will remain loyal to her with regularly scheduled appointments. I respect her time and always arrive a few minutes early or let her know with a phone call more than twenty-four hours ahead of time if I will be traveling during my appointed visit time.



I dress in loose, comfortable clothes. The legs and arms of what I wear should be easy to roll up. I have appropriate flip-flops by OkaB, which are worn only on pedicure days. I take a shower a few hours before my visit, but I shave my legs the day before which gives any small nicks a chance to heal a little before the visit. I skip perfume on the day I visit any service provider or Doctor's office. They may not enjoy my fragrance as much as I do.


Your service provider should always use fresh towels, disinfected or new tools only, and the space should be operating room clean. I never allow my cuticles to be cut or a razor to be used on my skin which tricks your skin into producing more thickening. The truth is, you need thicker skin in some areas for a reason. I walk and run for three miles almost every day. When too much skin is taken away, it makes my feet very tender.







I have short fingers with a small nail bed, so I always choose a nude color and a square-oval nail shape to elongate. This color is OPI's Tickle My France-Y.



Neat square red nails on my toes is my signature look. In the summer, I switch to a brighter lighter color like OPI's Cajun Shrimp or Dutch Tulips.






The top I am wearing here is by Last Tango. It was provided by Purple Poppy. The pants are several years old by Evan Picone via Dillard's. The fun colorful clutch bag is from Carriage Trade Antiques next door, in Blowing Rock, North Carolina. The ring is from B'Dazzeled, also located in Blowing Rock.

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Thursday, June 16, 2016

Comfy?



It's fun to share new lines with you.





I had not had the chance to try pieces from the Comfy line until Purple Poppy recently sent me this top. The tunic is very much in keeping with my style. The striped knit fabric is designed to flatter the waistline and flow softly across your curves.




I am wearing the tunic with Renaur cigarette leg ankle pants which are also from Purple Poppy.




My jewelry is from French Kande. They supplied the long medallion necklace, and I purchased the bracelet.





The sandals are old by Ralph Lauren. The bag is old by Nine West. The sunglasses are by Balmain via Saks Off 5th.






When I wear these long tunics, I pair them with pants that pull on which means there are no loops, buttons or zippers to create lumps and bumps under the smooth fabric. A great foundation is also imperative with smooth fitting tops like this one. The Ultimate Shapeez bra is the coolest and most comfortable option I have found, and it gives you a nice smooth line under your clothes.






This type of look can be worn for business casual, out to lunch with friends or anytime you want to look appropriate but not too dressed up. Accessories can be used to change the look and attitude to something more dressy. You could also wear this top with sleek black trousers and black heels. Add a turquoise necklace and bag to create an entirely different look. I love the versatility of neutral pieces!


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Created in collaboration with Purple Poppy and French Kande.
All words, styling, and creative direction are my own.


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Wednesday, June 15, 2016

Proportion is Key

You have likely noticed that I dress in a lot of neutral solids. 



If I owned a lot of patterns or prints, it would limit the possible combinations. Solids are also more pleasing to my eyes and less memorable. 



When I add new pieces to my collection, they must be ones that I can wear with the items I already have. Owning a capsule wardrobe of pieces that work together makes my life so much easier. I am all about ease and comfort!



That only leaves me with the task of matching up the correct proportions. For example, long straight leg jeans might require a more cropped close-fitting jacket or top.





When the summer heat settles in, I switch to layers of sheer fabrics that flow across my body but add no volume or weight. The linen blend J.Jill cardigan I am wearing here is almost sheer, but it gives coverage and balance to my look.



I experienced 100% humidity at 100 degrees last week while I was in Memphis. I saw women of all ages in sundresses and sandals. Dresses are not my favorite thing, so I had no hesitation in slipping into a loose fitting tank top, white slacks and strappy sandals when I had to go out during the day. I dress for the weather, the event and then add the accessories that express my mood.



Cropped close fitting jeans can be worn with a loose flowing longer top. I pair shoes according to the cut of the pant leg. I always wear a higher heel with cropped style or ankle pants because they make my already short legs seem shorter. With long straight leg jeans that stop at the top of the foot, I usually wear flats.



If you are petite (5' 4" or less) you may find that longer tops are never a good look for you. Tops that end at your fingertips are usually as long as you would ever want to go.







We were going out for drinks with friends after work when I wore this look. These jeans are a couple of years old, and they are by NYDJ. The layered V-neck tank is from White House Black Market. The bag is old by BCBG via T.J.Maxx. The shoes are by Sam Edelman from Dillard's. The pearl and silver medallion necklace is by French Kande.


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Tuesday, June 14, 2016

Drive Your British Car Show

We recently attended the annual Drive Your British Car Show in Johnson City.



This year, Mr. Mickey drove his friend's vintage Bentley. There were many fabulous cars there, but the show was cut short by rain this year.













I am always so happy to see my sweet friend Natalie. As the rain started to fall, we retired to the restaurant Gourmet and Company for dinner and lots of fun conversations.







I followed my formula for dressing on this busy day. Knowing what shapes flatter your shape and which colors look good near your face, helps you to get dressed in two minutes.

A blue top and white slim fitting jeans is one of my all time favorite summer looks. Nude sandals visually extend my rather short legs. Throw on a long necklace that gives me that deep V-neckline and I am ready for just about any event.

This top is by Clara Sunwoo, and I bought it at ShopMyFairLady. The white jeans are by Tribal, and they were a gift from BodyLanguageByConnie. The necklace was a gift from French Kande.



The questions I get most often are about foundations and other shoe options.



The perfect bra for these smooth fitting tops is the Ultimate by Shapeez. Soma offers panties that do not show lines under your clothes.



My shoes are old by Gianni Bini via Dillard's. If you prefer a flat sandal, this one is similar.


I hope that my posts give you some ideas for putting together looks that help you to feel more confident and make getting dressed fun again.


Thank you for joining us on this journey through midlife and beyond. The second fifty years are truly the best!

Created in collaboration with French Kande and BodyLanguageByConnie.
All words, styling, and creative direction are my own.