Next week is my birthday week! Look for numerous new posts. Mickey has lots of events planned to celebrate.
This lifestyle blog celebrates our second fifty years. I enjoy sharing what I have learned about style, nutrition, and relationships. Hopefully, it will save you the trouble and expense I went through to learn these valuable lessons.
Thursday, September 6, 2012
September Date Night
Next week is my birthday week! Look for numerous new posts. Mickey has lots of events planned to celebrate.
Sunday, September 2, 2012
Last Days of Summer
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Wednesday Date Night
Shoes by Impo.
Thanks for reading! I hope you have a great rest of the week.
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
Celebrating Stylish Friends
We are a group of friends who love to get together with Rose, the wonderful friend we all have in common. She and her sweet husband, Jerry, recently invited all of us along with our significant others over for brunch.
One of the best things about this stage of our lives is that we now have some time to get comfortable with who we are, with friends sharing laughter and our stories. Whether you are my Facebook friend or one who lives down the street, I'm so grateful to have you in my life.
This blog and my Facebook page (Fifty, not Frumpy) are dedicated to women who might be over fifty but are still having fun with fashion and enjoying life. Here's to you, beautiful ladies! May the second half of your life be even more fulfilling and exciting than the first.
Thanks for reading!
Sunday, August 19, 2012
Easy Breezy Summer Afternoons
I'm wearing khaki ankle pants with a soft floral blouse from Coldwater Creek and Nine West shoes. The sunglasses and bangle bracelets are in brown tones and bone with brass accents.
I'm comfortable and casual for lounging by Mickey's pool in the pavilion with friends.
Yesterday we went for a drive to the mountains of North Carolina. When we arrived in Blowing Rock, it was much cooler than it was here in Johnson City. I visited one of my favorite boutiques, The Fig Leaf Ltd, where I bought this Damee swing jacket.
Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Balancing Act
Do you have an inverted triangle body type? These pictures show two versions of the wrap top. They always make me look a little slimmer when the heat requires that I not wear a jacket or sweater as a third element. I have an inverted triangle figure, which means my top is larger than my bottom half. To balance this, I often wear darker colors on top and lighter colors on the bottom. I also avoid bulky materials of any type in tops and breast pockets on shirts or ruffles on blouses.
When wearing long pants, a maxi dress, or a long skirt, I often wear low flat shoes. When I wear a shorter skirt or cropped pants, I always wear at least a low heel. I prefer wedges or thicker heels since my calves are short and thick compared to my thighs. If I wore thin stiletto heels, the contrast would make my calves and ankles look even larger.
Sunday, July 29, 2012
Tank Tops to the Rescue
The black and white jacket needs just a bit of modesty at the neckline, so I'm wearing tank #1 here.
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Enjoy the Journey
My page 'Fifty, not Frumpy' on Facebook has been a huge hit, with as many as 8,500 views per week. My sets on Polyvore geared to women of a certain age had more than 40,000 views in the first six months of being a member. The feedback and interest shown have inspired me to create a web site and devote my blog to the very popular conversations and pictures we share for those who are having fun with fashion later in life. Let's celebrate who we are now and make the most of our assets and have fun with fashion.
I kept all my accessories simple since I was wearing a hat and sunglasses; otherwise, my look would have been too cluttered.
The sandals are comfortable and low with embellishments that complement the details on the hat and the bag.
Later in the day, when the heat was high, and everyone was sporting their wet hair and looking wilted in their damp clothes, I still felt comfortable and confident. I was flattered that so many people gave me compliments. One guy even whistled at me! That hasn't happened in many years.
This is my sweet, wonderful gentleman friend and partner in adventure, Mickey.
Thank you for reading! I hope the tips and ideas I share with you give you inspiration for making fashion fun again.
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Star Style
Tone on Tone Dressing
Wearing the same color in different tones from head to toe is lengthening and slimming and projecting elegance and great style. Always wear a tunic over leggings. The hemline should reach mid-thigh (well below your bottom). A bit of heel is better than a totally flat shoe. Wedges rather than thin heels are easier to walk in and also more attractive with leggings. Open your collar and add a silk scarf or an interesting necklace inside the neckline. Turn up your sleeves to just below your elbows to look taller and thinner, as well as being cooler. Fabrics that flow and move easily across your body are more comfortable and attractive. Tight clingy fabrics will never make you feel confident.Handbags
A handbag or a clutch is usually more attractive since they do not alter the line of your clothes as a shoulder bag does. The proportion of a bag should complement your size. A large woman carrying a tiny handbag looks a little silly, don't you think?Jewelry
Button earrings with a dangle or a drop are infinitely more attractive on almost all women. If you are wearing a bold statement necklace, the earrings should not compete with it. Either don't wear earrings with it or wear only small studs or hoop earrings.
Sunglasses
Sunglasses should fit your face shape and size. For example, square sunglasses frames will look better on you if you have a round face. The color of the frame and the lens's tint should complement the color of your hair and your skin tone.Thank you for reading. I hope my tips are helpful to you.
Sunday, June 24, 2012
Boutique Earrings
Boutique Earrings |
More than two hundred boutiques and galleries, as well as several high-end Department Stores, carried my jewelry line during my career. The biggest selling item ever for me was earrings. I created hundreds of styles, such as those pictured here with clip backs and lots of dangles. The color was a selling point, as well as design. I created styles in denim, animal print, lime green, and every color combination one can think of. Customers still ask the boutiques for earrings in this style, but they are challenging to find because designers create those little wire through the ear styles that look great on most younger women and not so great on most mature women.
If you decide to create these earrings, here are a few tips to remember. Clip backs with cushions are a must. Create an interesting button top with filigree or other looped findings as a base. Add an uneven number of dangles that graduate from the center to the shortest on the outside. (I've added as many as eleven rows of dangles on one earring. They sold to the first person who saw them.) Always use small jump rings to attach dangles so that the strand has motion and will hang straight. Adding a chain as part of a few of the strands keeps the design from becoming too bulky. Use long beads and flatter spacer beads, rondelles, and bi-cones to have variety and interest in the design. Pops of color can come from large seed beads.
Look at the color combinations in the stores you sell to. If there is a trendy jacket that combines silver and gray, make some earrings that would look great with that jacket.
Now that I am in my mid-fifties, I understand perfectly why women my age look for button earrings with or without dangles. We like to hide those earlobes that may be stretched a bit. It's always nice to find a dangling pair of earrings to wear with simple necklines. It draws attention away from a neck that may not be as smooth as it was a few years ago.
I was recently speaking with the owner of one of the boutiques that bought a lot of my work when I was still designing. The owner and staff told me that they have many customers who want this type of earring, but they can rarely find them. The owner said she looks on Etsy for them! She sells the earrings in her shop for $75 and up.
Don't miss out on a great customer because you don't have any of these earrings to offer. Make a few and see what happens. The feedback you get will tell you if you are on the right track. Always watch for body language and what people actually say as they are looking at your work. When someone smiles and picks up a piece to study it, make a mental note. Even though they may not buy the piece, it brought a positive reaction.
Have a great summer!
Saturday, May 26, 2012
You Are Not Alone
Getting dressed without added stress might not seem very important at this time in your life, but I know from experience it is. I was someone who stood in her closet in tears and exhausted from trying on clothes for a special event, only to become more frustrated with every discarded piece. I can tell you it makes the difference in showing up and participating in life or staying home and eating ice cream alone.
Great for the evening! |
Out to Lunch! |
Strictly Business |
Hear me, Roar! |
Saturday, May 12, 2012
Fashion Tips For Us
I've named the photo set below "Street Style" because it represents my formula for getting dressed for the daytime. Layers allow you to be prepared for cooler restaurant temps, a sudden spring rain, or a ride in a convertible. Push up the sleeves of a lightweight cardigan in a flattering color for your skin tone and wear a body-skimming tee underneath. This gives you a flattering deep V neck, and pushing up your sleeves to show the forearm always adds height and takes away pounds visually. Layering in lightweight fabrics allows you to feel confident that you aren't showcasing those extra pounds around the middle that we find so very difficult to get rid of.
I often wear a hat in the summer for several reasons. My hair is not as full and thick as it once was, but I also like covering my hair when it will likely stick to my head with perspiration. (Never a good look!) Some rules will always apply when wearing a hat. Your other accessories need to be less in number and scale when you wear a hat. If the weather becomes too warm later in the day, I can take off the cardigan and drape the scarf across my shoulders. Try on several styles of hats to find the one that is flattering to your face shape. Remember, round plus around is never good when it comes to faces and accessories.
Sunglasses in shapes that flatter your face and protect your eyes are a wise investment for anyone. I have several styles and always make sure I have the correct sunglasses and shade of lip gloss before leaving for the day. Lip gloss or lip color of any type should blend with the color of your top. Image a beautiful red blouse with lip color in the orange tones. (Clash!) I like to wear earrings and bangles in my accent color in hot summer weather. A necklace, earrings, sunglasses, and a hat all at once are way too much going on in a small area.
Platform sandals are much more flattering with cropped pants or walking shorts because they visually add length to your lower leg to balance out the fact that cropped pants shorten the length of your leg. A nude color leather with accents such as jute, straw, or cork is great summer neutrals with white or khaki pants.
Saturday, March 31, 2012
Happier and Healthier
Spring 2011 |
Spring 2012 |
Susan's Power Porridge Breakfast
1 cup of hulled, organic barley (soak overnight and cook for one hour). Use filtered water.
1/4 cup of organic farro (cook for 40 minutes)
1/4 cup of brown organic lentils (add to the farro and cook for another twenty minutes)
1/4 cup of old-fashioned organic rolled oats (cook for about 10 minutes.)
2 Tablespoons brown flax seeds (I grind them in a coffee grinder) Stir as soon as you add these ground seeds.
2 Tablespoons sunflower seeds and sesame seeds
2 Tablespoon of raw organic pepitas (no shell pumpkin seeds)
2 Tablespoons natural raw walnuts
2 Tablespoons raw pecans
1 tablespoon of turmeric
1 tablespoon of Red Star Nutritional Yeast (Not brewer's yeast.) It supplies B vitamins.
Add cinnamon, ginger, allspice, nutmeg, or ground cloves to taste.
4 Large dates (pits removed) cut in half, then diced
1 sliced banana and 1/4 cup of blueberries or any fresh fruits you like.
Cooking instructions: Cook the barley in a separate pot uncovered. Add as much cooked barley as you want to the cooked farro, lentils, and oatmeal. The other items are added as desired until warmed through. Put in a bowl and add the fruit. You can save any extra to warm up for another breakfast.Friday, March 16, 2012
New Start!
During the past year, I lost more than forty pounds. That equates to size 12 pants that were too tight to size 6 pants that are too loose in the rear. None of the old familiar favorites that have carried me through in the past will now work for me. Thus begins the monumental task of rebuilding a wardrobe that took years to acquire.
The pieces I've chosen above can be mixed and matched to get the most out of my investment. The exception would be the light blue jacket. It is more dressy and would only be worn with black pants or a black skirt for evenings.
My goal is to build a core wardrobe of basic pieces that easily move from day to evening and for any event. These pieces can be updated with accessories and layered over tops with interesting details or pops of color to make them current.
I look for shapes and details that are appropriate for my body type. My upper body is still too thick as compared to my lower half. Instead of boxy large collar jackets, I look for deep V, single-breasted closures, or no closure at all. Lapels are notched high and upward with smaller or, best of all, no lapels. This draws the eye up to my face, which is roundish. I look for a lower scoop neck or V-necks in a simple style and sleek material to balance the roundness. Showing a bit of skin above the cleavage elongates the face. (At fifty-five, I don't show wrinkly cleavage on purpose.)
The shape of a jacket or blouse should be nipped in a bit at the waist but loose enough to smooth the back. Boxy jackets or ones that are too long will overwhelm me and make me look older and shapeless. My waist has always been thick but wearing a shapeless high neck jacket with a round collar or a chunky knit cardigan makes me appear to have no neck at all as well as no waist and makes my chin appear to rest right on top of my bust.
I always search for pants and skirts with a plain flat front and ideally a side zipper. Even though I don't have much behind, I don't want to draw attention to it with flap pockets or embellished details. I still want smooth, effortless pockets on my slacks. Skinny jeans are for the very young and very skinny. I put those acid-washed, weirdly faded, embellished jeans in that same pile. I look for dark blue jeans, white jeans, and khaki pants with a slightly flared hem and smooth, simple natural waistline.
I prefer blouses with the same waist tailoring and a crisp collar that can be turned up for an extra lift. I like three quarter length sleeves and always look for those in blouses, summer weight knit cardigans, and crossover detailed tops. Showing a bit of skin at the neck and forearm gives you a visual lift and makes you look taller and thinner.
Wish me luck as I continue my search! I hope sharing this with you has helped you in your search for updates as well. Try writing down what you are looking for and why. It helps narrow the overwhelming choices when it comes to choosing what is right for you.